To scatter them in this place seemed appropriate, fitting and right.
I had thought of having my children with me, but in the event, it was something I wished to do by myself: to walk in this place alone and unobserved, solemnly, and with purpose, on a sunny day, and to spread them in a place of beauty. This I did, and said silently, again, 'Farewell: I will try to let go of the sorrow, the grieving, the bitterness and unhappiness, and to recollect, what a friend said to me gently, recently, 'You did love each other, and you did have happy times.'
One must remember the good as well as the bad.
It remains finally to organise the placing of the rest of his ashes in a niche, with a commemorative plaque.