tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post6345178324063371854..comments2023-09-11T18:53:16.686+10:00Comments on idle persiflage: Lossespersiflagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05161607100227748374noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-48261869512467385612011-01-26T22:24:15.501+11:002011-01-26T22:24:15.501+11:00I wish you well in this endevour. I went through t...I wish you well in this endevour. I went through this with a parent, and whilst it is vastly different with a partner, the parallels of discomfort are there. I hope you find your way peacefully.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-68295740959536387692011-01-26T10:05:35.611+11:002011-01-26T10:05:35.611+11:00Oh dear, this is so hard on you. I can't belie...Oh dear, this is so hard on you. I can't believe that those daughters have taken his money and left you with not enough to have him cared for properly. I mean - I do believe it, but it's beyond imagination. <br /><br />You must get all the help you can. You need to have your life back and his children should be taking at least some of the responsibility for his care. I'm so sad for you and hope that a solution will be found sooner rather than later. I know how desperate I felt about my confused aunt problem last year.<br /><br />(Ankle getting better, thanks, and snow long gone.)Pam https://www.blogger.com/profile/12641269043817163165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-72697199631772055202011-01-25T21:13:14.348+11:002011-01-25T21:13:14.348+11:00I am so sorry to hear of this sad journey.
It is s...I am so sorry to hear of this sad journey.<br />It is so difficult to lose someone a bit at a time, and then to be left with a person you hardly know.Relatively Retiringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07648407316162715318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-53436111958483322762011-01-25T09:50:18.114+11:002011-01-25T09:50:18.114+11:00I feel very sorry for you, and can, to a degree, s...I feel very sorry for you, and can, to a degree, say that I know how you are feeling. My sister found herself in a similar situation with our father as he became sicker with Multiple Myeloma. however, he was not as bad as your Dr P.<br /><br />Now we 3 sisters, following his passing in 2009, are searching for a more appropriate place for our mother, who has been in care since the late 90s. Dad moved there a year or so before he finally passed. I went through the whole guilt thing, having moved to another state for a better employment prospect, and to be nearer my adult son....now all I can do is all the "admin" and phoning; stuck in another state whilst I have treatment for my cancer.<br /><br />It is a real problem trying to find a place for relatives. And in our country, despite Government regulatory policies, our aged care facilities vary a lot with regard to level of care and simple dignity and diplomacy.<br /><br />I will b[e thinking of you and hope you will soon find a solution.<br /><br />You are a formidable woman with what you are dealing with, and this will help you as you deal with this problem.<br /><br />Take good care.SoulDragonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15617739637320730319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-82546451481512407562011-01-25T08:47:31.713+11:002011-01-25T08:47:31.713+11:00You are a strong and wonderful woman, and I know y...You are a strong and wonderful woman, and I know you will not lose yourself. It is good that you will get some extra care so you can go back to choir; I think it's very important to maintain your interests in a situation like this, and have a healthy outlet for socialising and creativity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301215723729061662.post-49722301357783369092011-01-25T00:34:36.118+11:002011-01-25T00:34:36.118+11:00My heart aches for you in this impossible situatio...My heart aches for you in this impossible situation.VioletSkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222821877918680480noreply@blogger.com